I hereby give you permission to. . .

Many business people are good at putting pressure on themselves to succeed and beating themselves up when it doesn’t all go quite to plan. I know I am pretty good at doing that to myself ;)

In spite of the fact I absolutely love what I do.

Then, whilst browsing the Internet I saw. . .

“One day as I was venting to a friend about a job I despised, she interrupted and grandly proclaimed, ‘I hereby give you permission to quit your job and do what you truly want!’ I had to laugh. Her words made me realize that the only thing keeping me stuck was that I hadn’t given myself permission to do otherwise.”

. . .that was the start of the blog post that caught my attention; enough to share with you.

You see, as well as sometimes being a little too hard on ourselves, I wondered how often do we do the opposite and shy away from success. Or avoid doing something because we feel silly about it; are scared of the consequences or nervous about what other people may think?

This post expanded on the idea of giving yourself permission to do or be something different; to – maybe – get outside your comfort zone and experiment.

And I thought… how about applying it to our business and career aspirations?

After all – if you own a business – why shouldn’t you give yourself permission to fail and learn by your mistakes; to relax and enjoy what you are creating and, ultimately, be outrageously successful?

You can read the original post here:http://mentalmosaic.com/blog

~ Carol Bentley

P.S. And how about giving yourself permission to relax and enjoy your family and friend’s company this weekend?

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20 Responses to “I hereby give you permission to. . .”

  • Hi Jim, this is a blog – I write a post or article and invite visitors like you to comment if they wish. In a forum any visitor/subsciber to a website can post a question and start a discussion. Hope that helps to clarify the difference for you. :)

  • Hi George,
    we are all a little tough on ourselves sometimes, after all we are our greatest critic. As you say, cutting ourselves some slack allows us to be human-beings. ;)

  • A lot of the pressure I put on myself is a result of me compensating for my other less-than perceived short-comings. It’s as if I tell myself—if I accomplish this & this then I’ll finally be okay. However, that okay never comes because I’m living as a human-doing rather than a human-being. Today, I’m working on being more gentle with myself. Thank you for a great post.

  • This Looks like awesome forum or is this a blog? Sorry I am a newbie.
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    Dayton Roofing

  • LOL – I like your way of thinking Herber… it seems like a good incentive to just ‘get on with things’ and reap the reward after!

  • You can also turn this around. “If I finish up this big project today, then I give myself permission to slack off tomorrow”. I think a lot of us were raised to ask for permission to do something before we do anything.

  • Thank you for a great post Carol,

    Sometimes I think I’m my own worst enemy—afraid of success and the expectations that come along with it. People are always telling me, Susie, “you need to be more compassionate with yourself”. I agree with them, but it’s easier said than done.

  • thank you, Carol.
    Permission to enjoy and grow…is there any better success?
    Peace and wonder,
    CG

  • Thanks for you thoughts Carol, I think it is certainly something that a lot of business people aspire to although I suspect that many do not achieve it. It ties in rather strongly with Tim Ferriss’ 4-hour work week (checkout http://fourhourworkweek.com/)

  • How about giving yourself permission to only work part-time, to turn away certain clients/jobs/projects and to say “enough is enough”? Sometimes I struggle with being able to say “no” or “not yet.” We live in such a high-pressure, do-it-all society; I want permission to define success my own way…
    Thanks for the thought-provoking post.
    (another) Carol

  • p.s. Lots of great info on your site. I will be back! :)

  • Hi Carol,

    Thanks so much for featuring my article, “Write Yourself a Permission Slip” on your blog. I like your perspective on it, too.

    Giving yourself permission to succeed (as well as fail) is so liberating. It’s definitely a lesson I learn and re-learn. :)

    Tui

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